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Everyday Spots To Find Your Next Summer Romance

Summer is just right around the corner, for most of us, we’re already soaking up the extensive heat waves and laying on the beach. But when you’ve spent your time building your career or you’ve been in a long relationship that just didn’t work out, the thought of finding your next love interest may be daunting. 

When it comes down to it, it turns out that finding a good guy isn’t that easy especially in the age of Social Media and dating applications.  But if you’re looking to spark up the next conversation with an attractive guy, here are some places where you might be able to scoop up your next summer romance.

Sports Games

Sometimes you have to take the fight to them.

So, even if you hate sports, going to a game with a friend could mean you’re introduced to someone you hit it off with. Whether you lock eyes at the hot dog stand or you end up sitting next to each other, it’s certainly worth a try. You may want to get yourself a new outfit with Macys coupons before you go.

Just remember: if you do start dating someone because you met at a sports game, don’t pretend to like sports. Be yourself and you’ll be surprised at the common interests you may have!

Business Conference

Who’s to say that men aren’t looking for smart women too? If your boss asks you to attend a business conference or a training seminar, take the opportunity. It may be the last thing you want to do works-wise but you may be surprised by who you meet. There are plenty of single and ambitious men at conferences. If you have to travel and stay overnight, even better!

Bars

It’s probably the most obvious suggestion, but you’d be surprised by how many women avoid bars when looking for a date.

There seems to be the misconception that bars will be full of college students or people of similar age, and everyone left over will come with too much baggage. That isn’t true at all. In fact, some single men hoping to find a relationship will sit in a bar with some of his friends on a Saturday night.

Conventions

Science fiction conventions and high-profile conventions like Comic Con, are full to bursting with single men. You may think that’s because they spend all their time playing video games or watching Star Wars but there are some diamonds in the rough. If you’re into to science fiction too, this could be the ideal solution for you. The only problem is, with such a large crowd of people, it can be hard to narrow down who to talk to and how to talk to them. Once you’ve attended a few conventions, you may get to know certain groups of people that you can stay in touch with online. It’s all a step in the right direction. After all, Mr. Right may be a friend of your new friends.

The only problem is, with such a large crowd of people, it can be hard to narrow down who to talk to and how to talk to them. Once you’ve attended a few conventions, you may get to know certain groups of people that you can stay in touch with online. It’s all a step in the right direction. After all, Mr. Right may be a friend of your new friends.

You may think that’s because they spend all their time playing video games or watching Star Wars but there are some diamonds in the rough. You’d be surprised at the amazing personality that some people have behind a computer/television screen. I’m a huge nerd at heart so it’s easier for me to spark an interest with someone who is also into video games science fiction movies.

The only problem is, with such a large crowd of people, it can be hard to narrow down who to talk to and how to talk to them. So don’t be afraid to go up to someone at these types of conventions, ask about their costumes and what they think about the upcoming video game release. 

The Internet

Yes, you have to be guarded when talking to people on the internet but it’s a perfectly viable way of finding a partner. I’m a huge advocate of online dating because being in a long distance relationship – sometimes it feels that way. 

Whether you choose to use dating sites or start adding friends of friends to your social media profile, chatting online can find you romance. There are a billion people in the world and unfortunately, you just don’t connect to anyone who’s local – so what’s wrong with looking elsewhere? 

There are some key things to remember if you are going to be looking for love online:

  • Always ask for photos. Not just selfies but photos with friends or with family members. Instastories and Snapchat can be your best friend for real time photos.
  • In the world of technology there is no way someone can’t say no to a simple video call, if someone refuses to video call with you, I wouldn’t invest so much time in him.
  • Be a creep and look up his social media accounts. Is there a limited amount of friends he has on facebook? Are there people who have tagged him in other photos?

Still not convinced? Here’s how to spot a catfish.

Speed Dating

Speed dating is the ideal solution for people without much time on their hands.

You can date multiple people in one night and make a choice as to who you would like to see again. If you’re matched up with anyone, the organizers will give you the persons contact information and you can arrange a second date together.

If you’re worried about how to make conversation with multiple people you’ve never met before, take a look at some speed dating tips.

House Party

Your own home is one of the best places to meet guys. Ask your friends to bring along some eligible bachelors and throw the party of the century. You’ll be in your comfort zone, so you’ll be on top form. And, you’ll always have an excuse to slip away if the conversation is getting awkward – more dip anyone?  Your friends will sometimes know you better than yourself, which is why leaving your love life in their hands can be the best experiment you ever enter into.

You’ll be in your comfort zone, so you’ll be on top form. And, you’ll always have an excuse to slip away if the conversation is getting awkward – more dip anyone? Your friends will sometimes know you better than yourself, which is why leaving your love life in their hands can be the best experiment you ever enter into.

Take a Class

Relationships often start based on mutual interests. If you fancy learning Italian, why not join a class? Whatever you choose to study, you may just find a single man there that’s doing the same. It’s the perfect talking point and a great excuse to get together and share notes. Who wouldn’t fall weak at the knees on a date with pizza, wine and the Italian language?

It’s the perfect talking point and a great excuse to get together and share notes. Who wouldn’t fall weak at the knees on a date with pizza, wine, and the Italian language?

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1 Comment

  • Reply Stafaine

    Woow, this looks really amazing,
    This is really on my have to do list before i get into my 40’s

    Keep posting,
    Kind regards
    Stefanie

    May 20, 2017 at 8:04 AM
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